"Mom, why do I have good, Johnny, if it is so mean to me?" "Natalie is so beautiful, and always take things with me, I have to play with Johnny, when I know that I like and sometimes hits me?" As a parent you can probably relate to the questions asked every day in this direction, your children. Your social skills of children and how it relates to others is a reflection of the influence of parents on their children. As children maturerecognize that the initiation of quality and durability of their relationships learned largely on the type of social skills and refined during his early childhood.
In my article "Children and valuable Life Skills Revealed doing puzzles," I emphasized certain skills such as patience, perseverance and self-esteem, but did not mention the importance of developing appropriate social skills, as always, along with others. Time is the 'ideal time to start teaching your little acceptable social skills and how to deal effectively with their playmates. Much of the child's behavior is learned, for example, but verbal reinforcement is necessary, since not everyone learns acceptable behavior. What social skills, you can teach your baby to this world a better place? Consider the following:
1. Teach your children how their fellow players, even those who do not like easy. Teach them to be kind. Show themthat every person they like and then to remember how, is the playmate, love hard, usually requires more affection and acceptance.
2. Teach your children react to their playmate, without violence, hitting or biting, even if your playmate little aggressive in both places taught, it is important to keep the other cheek, and that "eye for an eye" is not acceptable.
3. Bring to treat your children as they want to be treated. Societies around the worldTo promote the Golden Rule and to realize the importance of maintaining a civilized society.
4. Teach your children the first impressions can be misleading and do not judge their fellow players, if not their behavior is acceptable. Everyone has a bad day sometimes and some are just shy and need to be allowed out of his shell. Teach your kids know how important it is that someone from within.
5. Teach your children that everyone makes mistakes and the importanceforgiveness. If your baby is the culprit, teach him to say really. "Sorry"
6. Bring your children to share with his playmates. Help them understand that life is not, "All About Me," is to give and share.
As an author, my goal is to provide information on educational toys, but I would be remiss if I neglected to mention the importance of adequate social skills and how to apply throughout the game. My experience is not in psychology, but I'm fastMention that I am an expert of a parent as the expert who for many years, the number of their parents for your children a. Teach your children basic social skills with continued love and commitment. Wait patiently ... You will reap the rewards of your efforts, if your baby has grown and shows an example of inner character to shine the safe.
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